I spoke to the original poster in game.. wonder if you guys realize they're a fairly new paid player.
I read the thread and I didn't see a single bit of screaming or shouting (generally represented in typed chat with capital letters). I did see profanity but after reading some of the semi-sexist responses.. well, I don't blame them. If I was new around here and got the reactions some had over a simple suggestion.. I might feel like doing the same thing.
Gotta love the forums.. always giving a warm welcome to new people