First off let me add what I didn't earlier:
I have found Dnet to be amazingly useful on RK1. I greatly appreciate the time that goes in to keeping it up and running. Neutnet also seems to be great so far.
What I don't want to see is some people using dnet, some people using neutnet, and most people using both. As someone who is selling an item, or trying to run a raid, I would have to spam both of them to maximize my visibility. As someone looking for a raid, or an item, I would have to watch both of them (and duplicate spam) to maximize my ends.
In the end, everyone will have to spam twice as much, and look at twice as much spam to accomplish the same thing we did on our respective servers before the merge.
Bans and the like, justified, or not, is somewhat irrelevant to the above point. Yes it sucks you got banned... you may have deserved it... you may have not deserved it. People can douchebags, admin or user, and in my experience there is a proportionally equal number in both groups. Personally, I feel that it would be a great gesture from the bot owners to lift all (or most) bans on both bots since the merge, to give everyone a "clean slate", especially if the owners decide to merge efforts, or one bot decides to deactivate.
Regardless of what happens, I would like to thank you again for giving us Dnet, I couldn't imagine playing this game without it (and I mean that quite literally).