A thought just occured to me. Perhaps we should have some sort of meeting, or get-together mostly ooc to purpose guidelines for RP? For one we could set up just what we want to consider Taboo, and two it gives us all a chance to get aquanted so it won't be that uncomfortable to strike up some sort of IC dialouge with another player.
Some place neutral would be best, but not a central gathering point. Maybe something like a borealis backyard or Harry's?