Making blind, ignorant assumptions don't get you anywhere.
I can speak for myself and my org. I play the side with less people. Period. That means that I swap sides often since people /ragequit when they get quad capped. We even have org rules against side swapping. We're not all as self-absorbed as you make us out to be, and I'll kindly ask you to cut the insulting.
When was the last BS round you did with 3 neutrals in it? Especially now with side swap forms post 200... It's alot less than once a day. Nice suggestion to kill Battlestation for everyone bro. Seriously. Pretty much all of us agree with the best solution is, and it's not make BS harder to get running.
It just so happens that I'm leveling an alt through Ely right now. I haven't had any trouble getting up to 100 by pickup teams for tiigs, spiders, dragons, statics, and I'm regearing so I can be useful on heck teams.
On the other hand, you know what I do when people are stingy with Hecks in an area? I stand by their group on a 220 NT and I kill all their hecks with Cataclysm. Alternatively I load my doc or agent and use CH to screw up their aggro horribly bad which ruins the XP from the hecks forcing them to all be killed before they will give xp again.
Buying alts isn't the solution. Alternative means to grind through these really sucky level ranges (80-110) is the real solution we need.