Dancing on a table is a sexual act? WOW! You mean if I in RL go and dance on a table I could get pregnant? I didn't know that! THANK YOU! I'll remember NEVER to dance on a table.
Get real. I expect flirting from guys when my character dances on a table. I do not tolerate vulgarity. And if you think I should because my character is dancing on a table well you are one of those type of people who think women deserve to get r@ped if they're wearing a short skirt.
Bottom line, if someone is acting towards you in a way you don't like, you let them know that you won't tolerate it. Now tell me how that is being a victim. Or are women just suppose to silently put up with everything is that your opinion?